what defines you

Have you ever wondered what defines your life.

Is it just all about winning the game,
the desires only to become the winner,
without actually really bothering to mend or solve problems.

Could it also be the times when you sit down and reflect,
rather than putting blames on each others’ shoulders.
Thinking back of all the things done and said,
perhaps learning from mistakes,
trying to understand and accept,
rather than just shooting unreliable bullets.

It could also be about the moments
when you are able to paint the smiles on the faces of the people you love,
or perhaps being able to touch peoples' hearts,
creating an impact to their lives.

To some people it may also mean taking the little steps,
rising up again after a fall,
picking up the pieces,
looking for the missing puzzle.

What defines you?
Either way, it may also be the littlest of things.
Or perhaps the love that made u whole..